Through a women eye.

So the sensitized case of “Nirbhaya” has made many to open their mouth without me as an exception. She had suffered a lot, beyond me and your imagination. I hope her soul is somewhere in a better place free from the nest of knaves. What here i want to bring to light is , there still are in-numerous Nirbhaya who are victim of infanticide, rape, torture, dowry, honor-killing, eve-teasing et cetera ,who are seeking justice but in vain. Nirbhaya’s death is another waking call that these offences can’t be over-looked…Not any more.

I don’t want to say this but I am deeply ashamed and heart-trodden with the way our nation is dealing with this and coming with senseless points every day. Doing this they are no doubt encouraging assailants because they know, no matter what ,they will go low on punishment(and that also IF by any chance they are caught ). And this sadist and hypocrite society, in spite of abating the pain of victim’s family, is not missing any chance to intensify their grief. Today all they want  is some cozy words to lighten their heart. The peoples around will not do this-as comforting them will not make them feel in upper hand; they will make harsh comments as they don’t have better job to do.

And we say …I’m proud to be an Indian. And we sing …  Vande mataram                                                                                                                                                                       

What really unsettled me is the kind of remark these shameless being are making (I won’t take their name for the fear that they will throw me in jail, offense: talking truth). There is no wondering their blood has turned into water.

1)      Nirbhaya could have pleaded to her assailants to leave her.

Disgusting .I can’t comprehend what he wanted to say by this???…that she didn’t…that she didn’t struggled to fight for her life that night. I wish someday he may suffer in some way that he may realize how many times pleading help.

2)      That rape happens mostly in India (Urban areas).

I wonder why not he has gone thru some facts and figures before making the remark.As for a record, according to a survey by TOI ,rape crime is more prominent in what he call Bharat(rural area).

3)      Small clothes, mobile phones ,going out in public, chow-mein et cetera are major convict for increase in rape activity.

Sir, we are not buying this. I mean really, why people don’t give a second thought to what they speak. If banning them for girl is an ultimate panacea to exterminate rape activity. So why an infant girl is raped, how these animals collect strength to rape a girl even in her house, why a lady even in a sari is raped, why girls in rural areas are raped, why??? Can they justify.

No!!! Because such remarks are made by insignificant peoples, who want to veil the fact that their law enforcement is weak, very weak; that sorry we’ll not be able to provide security to you and yeah why should we, we are insecure that you are doing good and our ego is hurt and mostly because you are a girl. (No offense to all the men. This is for the one who thinks that they rule the world and that girls are not human but a mere thing for their amusement.)

I was thinking this other day: to live with our terms like they do; to have success through our hard work like they get; to have sportsmanship to explore the world just as they go, mostly an acceptance that being a girl is not a crime, is too much to ask for??? Then it occurred to me to whom are we asking…man and why because they have dominated us since decades. Now, is a time to step out and speak and not to repeat same mistake our ancestor mothers made. Mistake of silence! We’ve endured a lot and beyond.

Girls … we’ve all the powers to live our way and no denying we are better being than most of them. Don’t let any of them subdue your strength and don’t yield…never from now on. Just because men are physically stronger than us no way mean they are better than us. Shout! Cry! Yell! And words will fall in deaf ears. It’s time to prove them again that just because they are physically stronger don’t mean they are better; don’t mean that they can do what they want. You have all you need to shun away those useless skunk…help yourself…and come out of delusion others will do it on your behalf. Remember, you are better than them any way, in every field ,in every way.